After several quiet weeks, we trimmed our asking price.
Then we buried poor St. Joseph upside down out on the corner of the lot.
We tried sprinkling some humor throughout.
All to no avail. A bold step was needed. I was urged on by my Chicago realtor, who assured me that it would guarantee a quick sale. And now that I've done it, I don't care about the house. In fact, I hope we have no action around here for at least a week or so. (Shoo! Get outta here! This isn't the house for you. Really.)
Monday, I purchased our tickets to Japan and three weeks from right now, I'll be stretched out on a futon at Molly's place. We've had this trip penciled in for what seems to have been forever, but always framed by possible complications. Now, we're going! Once I paid for the tickets, Molly and I hit the ground running. A long, free chat on Skype, followed by emails shooting back and forth all week. Lists of requested items (foods, toiletries, yarns,) contacts made with Japanese friends, consultations on *presento* (omiyage) suggestions. So much to do, so good to change the subject.
I can't tell you how wonderful it feels to have shaken off everything else. Honestly, this is the first time I've felt like my old self in months. We haven't seen Molly since she was home last Thanksgiving and unlike my previous trips to Japan, this time there are no expectations or big plans. The weather will still be warm so we can literally throw a bunch of summer clothes in a suitcase and go. I usually have some side trip suggestions or hopes in mind, a list of shops to try to hit, favorite items to be on the hunt for...paper mache figures, Japanese patterned dishes, fabric. (Ahem) But on this trip, I think we'd be happy to sit and play cards (or whatever) with Molly the whole time. M & I can really use a break.
And thanks to Superbuzzy, no longer should I feel compelled to divert from paths to every destination to check out local fabric haunts. Although, in the spirit of full disclosure, I *may* have mentioned the possibility a quick stop at Otsukaya (six floors!!) on our way to our family friends' home in Toyoake. (Molly would definitely have outed me in the comments if I hadn't 'fessed up.) I love Japan, though, and having read the recent news, I would like to do what I can to help out.
- TOKYO, Aug. 30 (AP) - (Kyodo)—Japan's retail sales shrank 2.2 percent in July from a year earlier to 11.35 trillion yen for the second straight month of decline, the Ministry of Economy, Trade and Industry said Thursday. The contraction was led by slower sales of textiles....
Good for you! It's a beautiful house -- it will sell!
Posted by: Kathy | August 31, 2007 at 06:15 PM
Wow--it is _certainly_ our duty to help revive the flagging Japanese textile industry!
...runs off to Superbuzzy...
Posted by: Ashleys | August 31, 2007 at 06:22 PM
YAY for feeling like your old self! I could definitely use a sprinkle of that.
Enjoy your trip and no worries about the house!
Posted by: Cara | August 31, 2007 at 07:22 PM
Hug Molly for me!
Interestingly enough, this is the attitude K and I have adopted for our trip to Italy next week...
We've been waiting and wondering about his next career move and we are going to let it go while we relax and have time together.
So, I get it and have high hopes that you will have an incredible trip.
Posted by: blackbird | August 31, 2007 at 07:30 PM
I loved the St. Joseph link. Although, it didn't help at all with my 4th grader's assignment this week..what does your name mean..."Joseph, he who enlarges"...is what comes up on the internet...WHAT??
Anyway, best of luck, you will never regret a trip abroad!
Posted by: Mary Beth | August 31, 2007 at 07:49 PM
What fabulous news! When life gets bogged down, what's better than making the bold move and just.....leaving the country? It will be a great trip for you and your family.
Posted by: Kathie | August 31, 2007 at 09:52 PM
woo! can't wait!
Posted by: Molly! | August 31, 2007 at 10:20 PM
How wonderful!
Posted by: Carole | September 01, 2007 at 08:18 AM
What an excellent idea! What a bugger you're trying to sell your house in the middle of the 'pooiest' time in recent years. Excellent plan of diversion/distraction!
Enjoy!
Posted by: Lily | September 01, 2007 at 08:46 AM
Good for you! Enjoy your trip and relax. Heck, the house will probably sell while you're gone. Isn't that always the way things work?
Posted by: Julie | September 01, 2007 at 11:50 AM
I have a four or five omiyage bags I have created from that wonderful book. I'm sure yours would be even lovelier! Have a great trip!
Posted by: Cindra | September 01, 2007 at 12:06 PM
What a great idea! Sounds like a relaxing way to go! And what a wonderful ambassador you are! I'm sure your host country will appreciate what you'll be doing for the textile industry during your visit three weeks hence. Happy planning and executing!
Posted by: Heather | September 01, 2007 at 08:01 PM
Hooray! It is great to hear a little cheer in your voice!
Posted by: Emily | September 01, 2007 at 10:02 PM
I heading to Japan in late September for a week. I few Aussie girls are now heading over to check out fabric shops. Looking forward to your photos.
Posted by: Judy | September 02, 2007 at 02:15 AM
Ha! I have also buried St.Joseph in my yard..to No avail! My DS said the other day "Hurry up Joey!" I hope you enjoy your Trip & come back to a Sold house.
& it would be a Sin to go over there & Not purchase some of that Yummy fabric!
Have a Great time!
Posted by: Laura | September 02, 2007 at 04:20 AM
oh so glad to hear you have a trip planned jan! and well, going away from "it all" will be great for you all....
damn housing market.
have a wonderful wonderful time! i know you will come back to a buyer or two.
Posted by: susan | September 02, 2007 at 09:18 AM
Will you be digging St. Joseph up when you sell?
Good for you, going to see Molly! A well deserved visit! and if some wonderful fabric presents itself to you, who are you to resist?
:D
Posted by: sandy | September 02, 2007 at 11:17 AM
My son and daughter-in-law buried St. Joseph Upside-down in their yard and their house sold in a few days. I think the upside-down part is very important. ;-)
Posted by: Christine Thresh | September 02, 2007 at 12:44 PM
There's nothing like travel to refind yourself. Have fun, and good luck with the house.
Posted by: Corvus | September 02, 2007 at 06:36 PM
A fun trip sounds like just the thing! Hope you have a wonderful time.
Posted by: Leslie | September 02, 2007 at 06:53 PM
Have a great trip to Japan and I bet while you're away the house sells!
Posted by: Clare | September 03, 2007 at 06:18 AM
It will be good get away from the You-Know-What and concentrate on something so philanthropic. After all,
it is your grave duty to bolster the Japanese economy single-handedly.
Wear comfortable shoes, Grasshopper.
Posted by: Elizabeth | September 03, 2007 at 11:19 AM
Sounds like great fun! I was hoping you would be there in January. I am watching ticket prices and am about to buy my ticket for the quilt show week. Have lots of fun! Hope you get lots of offers on your house!
Posted by: quilt crazy | September 03, 2007 at 11:17 PM
Yeay for all of you!! Family time is great for what ever ails ya!...oh and so glad to see you are part of the solution and not the problem ( when it comes to Japan's retails sales...especially TEXTILES....)Enjoy! Enjoy!
Posted by: schnoobie | September 04, 2007 at 11:16 AM
Good luck with your house... I'm in the same boat as you. We did the St. Joseph too. Cheers to wishing us both success! :o)
Posted by: happy zombie | September 04, 2007 at 02:50 PM
The trip is just what you need!! You will have such a great time.
Posted by: Mariko | September 04, 2007 at 03:25 PM
of course you'll have a wonderful time visiting your daughter- so happy for you.
I'm linking the mortgage professor's site. don't know if you're familiar with his writings- if you scroll down to recent columns, and click on "Selling a House in a Buyer's Market", you'll get his views on what to do to find a buyer. I thought it was interesting.
http://www.mtgprofessor.com/Default.htm
Posted by: j | September 04, 2007 at 11:05 PM
Sounds like a plan. Have a good trip!!
Posted by: Ruth | September 05, 2007 at 06:28 AM
Hey, good luck with the house and the trip. St. Joe works, just in his time :)
Posted by: Heather | September 05, 2007 at 08:35 AM
I'm so glad to hear you're taking the trip! Keep living as you wish and the home sale will take care of itself (ok, the realtors will take care of it, but that's what you pay them for).
Have a fantastic time. I'll be looking forward to photos.
Posted by: Nancy | September 05, 2007 at 11:57 AM
Awesome!!!! A change of pace is good!
Posted by: Scribbles & Bits | September 05, 2007 at 12:43 PM
Yay for you!!! :)
Posted by: Chris | September 07, 2007 at 11:13 AM
have a great trip. you are obligated, then, knowing what you know, to buy lots of fabric! hope you enjoy your trip to see Molly.
Posted by: amandajean | September 09, 2007 at 12:36 AM
Done that and sold our place within 3 days of market!!!! Good luck with the lil Joe! Best wishes. :o)
Posted by: Jess | September 18, 2007 at 12:27 PM